I love traveling! For me traveling is dreaming, inspiring, relaxing, rewarding, unknown, adventurous and I can go on and on. But I must admit, this wasn't our first trip to Europe but this trip for over two months was all of that and more.
When I started planning this trip, I imagined the places and the experiences that will come along. It wasn't easy to plan places for accommodation, transportation, and understand required connections for so many destinations; but everything is on web. I started with a spreadsheet and added info as I found it or interested me. Some became part of our itinerary, others were discarded. Here are some of my tips:
- I bought Rick Steves travel books and I speed-read as much as possible about the destinations. But I didn't plan the days. He is very accurate and offers great tips and even directions that help a great deal. I read in detail only as we were getting closer to the next destination to start developing a very flexible plan.
- Very important to be flexible, We don't like fixed schedules when we travel as it causes stress for both of us, but we managed and optimized time very well.
- I made sure all places we rented were close to the train station or we could take a train/subway/bus to get there. I was avoiding taxis at all costs as they could be very expensive. I checked if free Wi-Fi was available and heating as we were traveling in the winter, plus proximity to downtown. The rest was decided based on the pictures and description. It was always a gamble, but it was part of the adventure. The apartments we rented were accurate as described for the most part. When they were not, we changed our plans and moved on.
- I downloaded the Rail Planner app for the rail hub in Europe, available offline, it didn't give me prices, but it told me frequency and length of trip. Also I could use it offline. When I got to each destination I checked prices at the ticket machines to validate info to determine when we wanted to go where. The train was our main method of transportation, economical, fast, reliable, comfortable. The regional trains were not the same caliber as the international which all were impressive and faster.
- we relied on ATMs to get our cash as needed. I must say we visit many as cash didn't last long. We paid cash for everything. We certainly were more aware of the cost of things by paying cash. Keep in mind, many places didn't take credit cards, and many advertise cash only.
- we did grocery shopping at each location and had breakfast and dinner at home for the most part. It was fun to go to the store and markets. Most supermarkets were very small in all countries, but the fresh markets were all big and fun to visit. We also went to the farmers market and to the local shops like bakery, butcher, cheese, olives and many other specialty stores.
- as we planned what to do the night before, and we knew we didn't want to have a packed day, so we planned on one or two sites and a lot of sightseeing walking.
- we walked miles every day, took coffee breaks, gelato breaks, enjoyed the scenery, and watched people. We rarely took the bus unless it was very far or not walkable, and only a few times in the evening when we felt super tired.
- We didn't buy stuff to bring home to the states as we didn't want to carry extra things from country to country.
- We traveled with one carry-on suitcase each and one hand-bag.
- The apartments we rented had washers but no dryers. We used the washer and went to the laundrymat to dry only. We made a trip to the laundrymat about every two weeks, two loads of laundry each time and we had clean clothes again. The prices were almost the same in each country €5 for washing and €1 for drying. Industrial machines were super fast and efficient.
- We studied and memorized a few sentences in the local language to get buy. It was fun to quiz each other. The locals smiled when they heard us trying to use their language and helped us in English whenever they could. Most, not all, spoke at least a little English so communication was never a huge problem. Besides, I speak Spanish and when all else failed finger pointing and gestures worked amazingly well!
We asked ourselves the following questions;
Looking back, What would have we changed if we have to plan it all over again?
- wouldn't have picked Cadiz as a base in Spain; would have picked a different location, most likely a beach community close to Barcelona. Or Malaga or Marbella which was the original plan, but couldn't find a reasonable priced apartment.
- would have given Cinque Terre one day trip only and would have gone to Southern Italy.
- would have spent and extra day at Lake Como
What are some of the "BAD" or disappointed memories?
- In Lisbon graffiti was everywhere and not pleasing to the eyes. It seems people lost their pride and the city allows it.
- finding the apartment in Cadiz was easy, we received the key in the mail in the states, but once we arrived and questioned a few things the manager was unaccomodating, no central heating, no internet, one gas heating unit that warmed up one room only and hard to operate. Very poor host, all instructions in German at the apartment (keep in mind we were in Spain), including all TV channels, the apartment itself was very nice and nicely decorated, but the owners attitude not helping made it a bad experience for us. Cadiz is off the travel list forever for us. We wish we would have picked a different base town. But Sevilla made up for it.
- the cell phone we bought only worked in Portugal. It needed a new SIM card in each country, we bought another one in Spain and then stop wasting money.
- bought tickets to the Carnavele parade in Nice and it rained, we got a refund instead.
- Cinque Terre - nothing there besides the natural beauty, you need only one day to see the towns, unless you are a serious hiker.
What can you categorized as GOOD or unforgettable memories?
- expresso everyday for Ed and capucchino for me at a local coffe shop at €1 each
- in Lisbon the apartment owner picked us up at the airport and gave us a ride when we left. Super nice gesture.
- meeting Britt and Marcone in Lisbon, the shop owners below our apartment. We had daily conversations when we left in the morning and sometimes in the evening plus the fabulous dinner we had with them at a great sushi restaurant the night before we left.
- in Cadiz we had a nice conversation with a pre-med student that shared with us how bad it was to be a doctor in a socialist country. The pay is low and it's truly a vocation without monetary benefits after so many years of schooling. She said that a teacher or a government employee made the same money.
- our hotel in Sevilla was excellent, Melia! We enjoyed it and Ed was able to watch TV in English.
- the flamenco show in Sevilla, great entertainment and delicious food.
- finding the apartment in Villefranche. It was raining when we boarded the bus at the Nice airport, we had no directions to get there, and only two bus numbers to take without knowing what stop to hop off. We asked and "voila" we learned the stop name. The old town had narrow streets winding up and down hills into hidden neighborhoods that only had walkways. Our apartment was up the hill, about two steep blocks from the harbor, nice location but not easy to find at night in the rain. We found it, but the apartment manager wasn't there. Ed sent me to ask, he didn't do it, he guarded the luggage while I rang bells on neighbor apartments and nobody answered, looked for people where there were none and finally ran into a man who let me used his phone to call Donna. The rest is history. French people were very nice and helpful everywhere.
- seeing the Carnavele parade in Villefranche.
- we can't forget the food in France. For us was the best of all. We remember the bouillebaise, calamari soap, olives, cheeses. The daily purchase of a french baguette is a memory in itself, the gelato in Italy we had frequently.
- finding the apartment in Cinque Terre, climbing a very steep hill, turning where the street leveled off and turning again where the wood railing ended, and were you see the children's park, and going down on the dirt path a few steps until you found the stone steps, and go down 29 steps with our luggage wasn't easy, but we laughed between gasps for air and found the key of the apartment on the plant pot in front of it. Yes, those were the instructions!
- uncooked gnocchi, fresh pesto, fresh grated Parmesan purchased at the tiny coop store in CinqueTerre and carried up the hill and prepared it for dinner.
- the soups I prepared without a recipe in almost every town with different ingredients. Ed loved them and me too! They were perfect for the cold weather.
- in Florence at the bed and breakfast, I couldn't go to bed without going to the dinning room to serve me the sweet wine presenred in a glass decanter accompanied with biscotti and pistachio. I got hooked. I want some now just thinking about it.
- visiting museums was not our first priority, but being in Europe you can't escape history as its everywhere and it was fascinating to see the old buildings several centuries old and the detailed architecture that took decades to finish and are still standing. We visited all the main churches in all towns and attended mass in two; in Florence and Milan (where were all the Lutherans).
- the high speed trains were much better than flying, no waiting to board, assigned seats, no security mess, lots of leg room and plenty of room for luggage. Prices are reasonable. Food available to purchase and you can order at your seat, or you can go to the dinning car, or you can bring your own food including liquids.
- rain or weather conditions didn't interfere with our plans. We bought an extra umbrella and voila, nothing stopped us from going anywhere even with the rain.
- last but best memory: meeting Judilka, Giorgio and Isack! It was the big highlight of our trip. We had the wonderful fish soup with the dear big shrimp friend looking up out of the bread bowl at us. Judilka was our private tour guide for Padova and multilingual for Ed's benefit. Beautiful day together from beginning to end!
After talking about your experiences, do you have some observations, conclusions, or lessons?
- People in Europe live in small places. Showers are tiny, kitchens are small, clothes washer but no dryer because electricity is so expensive. This was experienced all across the south of Europe. In Portugal business owners didn't turn their lights on during the day and wrapped themselves in coats and scarfs and only turned the lights on when a customer walked in. In conclusion happiness does not depend on the size of your dwelling, it's an inner feeling and one's attitude toward things.
- Trash in all countries we stayed has to be dropped off at the city bins located on main streets or strategic spots. They were bins labeled for trash, glass, paper. Not a pretty sight on any street. We made many frequent trips to the bins. No trash pick up.
- Dog poop everywhere on the sidewalks. You learned to walk looking down to avoid stepping in it. We don't understand why folks don't just pick it up like we do (in most places). It is funny to hear them wishing for heavy rain to clean the streets!
- Full size refrigerators are not standard. People go to the store more frequently than once a week for that reason. Frozen items are not common at the supermarket.
- The brand selection at supermarkets is limited. Very few to choose from for all goods due to the limited space. We found prices comparable in packaged goods, but much lower in fresh vegetables.
- Tips are not required. Most restaurants have a cover charge for using the table, typically €4, plus a service charge (tip) may be added to the bill. Bread is not free, it's served but you will find it on the bill; at least €2 charge per person. We typically asked if it was included and 9 out of 10 wasn't. If we didn't want it, we sent it back. None of these charges are standard or disclosed up-front.
- Small cars everywhere and parking is not easy or cheap. Gas was at the lowest prices from €2.25 to €2.75 all across Europe. Very similar to the state prices in US$.
- All business closed, including supermarkets, during lunch hours for 2 to 3 hours. The only place we didn't see this was in Milan. Even in Venice the water taxis didn't operate at lunch hours. Major tourist areas were impacted by this. They may not lose customers as people have no choice but to wait, but restaurants may lose business as tourists may end up buying a sandwich instead of a full meal. Dinner served starting at 7pm with the exception of Spain that is typically 8pm
- trains better than planes! We love their train system and wish we had something similar in the states.
- airfares could be as cheap as trains, so depending on the distance flying could be an option like we did from Spain to France. Planes are smaller, overhead compartments smaller too, our luggage didn't fit, luckily we didn't have to pay as the luggage fees are higher.
- Bus fares average €1.50 and the ticket is good for 70 minutes hop-on-hop-off in the same direction. Can't be used to return. Similar in all countries.
- travel is fun but it's always nice coming back home. This trip was a great reminder of everything we have and gave us a better appreciation for this wonderful country we can call home. The best country of all is the United States of America. Wee really have it all and we have it easy! God bless America!!!
Last, I am glad to record that Ed's red jacket is currently "retired" and my black coat will go to the cleaners after two months of daily use. The rest of the clothes we wore we may not wear again for a long long time.
We enjoyed and we learned so much that we will do this kind of trip again, we hope not to far away!
Thank you Lord for the wonderful opportunity and for bringing us home safe and sound to tell the story.
The beginning....
Welcome!
Ben-Vindo
Bienvenido!
Bienvenue!
Benvenuto!
And the end.....
Good bye!
Adeus!
Adios!
Au revoir!
Arrivederci!
Until next time.....
Love you all,
Ed and Diana


























































